We Do
welcome
choose your language · escolha seu idioma
by & for
LGBTQIAPN+

you say I do.we do the rest.

A wedding collective in Ireland. One queer-loving team for the whole day — photo, film, music, ceremony, content.

Two brides

unapologetically queer.

▾ What we do

one team.
one day.
all of you.

Most couples spend months chasing a photographer, then a celebrant, then a DJ, then someone to film it all. We Do is the team that already works together, already speaks the same language, already gets you. Pick what you need — we cover the rest.

Every person here is part of the queer community, so the work is always made with you, not for you. No coded language, no awkward photos, no scrambling for a celebrant who'll use your pronouns. You show up. You get married. We've got everything else.

A couple, by We Do
▾ what we offer

everything the
day needs.

one team that already works together — take the whole thing, or just the pieces you need. à la carte, no mandatory bundles. tap any service to see that person's work.

▾ and our little black book

the pros we trust.

beyond the team, we keep a curated list of queer-friendly pros we've worked with and vouch for. we don't publish it — but couples working with We Do get our personal recommendations for the pieces we don't cover ourselves. the kind of thing that's in there:

florists hair & makeup venues cakes & catering styling … and more
▾ a real day

press play. meet a wedding.

not a highlight reel of someone else's love — a real day, start to finish.

Valen & Amanda · film by Anna ✦

▾ The collective

meet the team.

Independent pros who already work together. Hover (or tap) a card to get to know them.

▾ kind words

couples, in their own words.

★ ★ ★ ★ ★

"I'd been a fan of Anna's work for years — we knew we wanted her before we even had a date. She didn't just take photos, she eternalised the best moments of our lives."

Amanda & Gabi Photo & film · 🏳️‍🌈
★ ★ ★ ★ ★

"From the very first meeting, Kamila made us feel completely seen and celebrated for who we are. Our ceremony felt not only special, but truly ours."

Vitor & Everton Ceremony · 🏳️‍🌈
★ ★ ★ ★ ★

"You made our ceremony so personal, every little detail in place. Thank you for making us Mr & Mr — truly unforgettable."

Damien & Rodrigo Ceremony · 🏳️‍🌈
▾ Who it's for

whoever you love.

Two brides. Two grooms. Nonbinary, trans, every kind of love. A wedding that actually feels like you — made by people who get it.

Two grooms
Two grooms, close
▾ Free planning tool

spiralling? we got you.

Planning a queer wedding in Ireland and not sure what's left to book? We built a free anti-panic checklist to help. Tell it how many months you have and what's already done — it'll show you what's typically booked in your stage, what's overdue, and who in our LGBTQ+ network can help with each piece.

Save as PDF, share with your partner, or just lurk. No sign-up, no email.

Open the checklist
▾ how it works

three steps. no stress.

1
say hi
One message with your date and what you're dreaming up. That's it — no long forms.
2
we talk
A real chat, then a quote that fits your day. No pressure, no upsells, no funnel.
3
we show up ready
One team who already gets it and already works together — so you can just be present.
▾ FAQ

questions? we got you.

Do we have to book the whole team?
Nope — take one, take all, or any mix. Each pro runs her own business, so you book exactly what fits your day and your budget.
Are you actually queer-affirming, or just queer-friendly?
Every person on the team is part of the LGBTQIAPN+ community. No coded language, no awkward photos. Made with you, not for you.
How much does it cost?
Every wedding is a different size, so there's no single price. Tell us your plans and we'll come back with a quote that makes sense — no pressure, no upsells.
Where do you cover? Do you travel?
We're based in Ireland — and we travel further for destinations and elopements when travel's covered.
see all questions →
▾ Get in touch

let's plan
your day.

Tell us a bit about your wedding — the date, the size, the vibe, what you've got and what you still need — and we'll come back with what We Do could look like for you.

All optional — share what feels right, skip what doesn't.

We reply within 1–2 business days 💛

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